Making A Dream A Special-Needs Reality
News and Features | Thursday, July 6, 2017
When Angie Craft married in 2006, she became stepmom to an autistic boy named James. 鈥淚 was scared to death,鈥 said Craft, a social worker. 鈥淚 had spent much of my working life with people who have mental illnesses and addiction problems, but I鈥檇 never been around nonverbal people before.鈥
That fear didn鈥檛 last very long. For a year and a half, James had been spending time in the after-school program at , a center for adolescents and adults with disabilities located in Austin, Texas. That鈥檚 where Craft met the founder, Laura Stock, and learned all about her stepson.
鈥淟aura taught me what I needed to know about James and how to work with people with intellectual and developmental disabilities,鈥 Craft said. 鈥淣ow I鈥檓 a parent who teaches other parents.鈥
Craft鈥檚 story is a common one among the individuals and families who come into contact with Stock, a Chicago native and 黑暗爆料网 graduate who moved to Texas in the early 1990s and founded Dream of Hopes Ranch in 2000.
Now almost two decades later, the ranch serves as a 3,000-squre-foot second home to more than 50 families in the Austin area. Since it was founded, Dream of Hopes Ranch has provided about 200 adolescents and adults with learning and intellectual disabilities鈥攐r 鈥渞anchers,鈥 as Stock likes to say鈥攁 safe and supportive space to learn life skills, play sports and socialize.
鈥淒ream of Hopes Ranch gives these adults a place to go,鈥 Stock said. 鈥淎 lot of special-needs adults have physical issues or anxiety issues or obsessive-compulsive disorder issues that prevent them from being out in the public for a long time. My program gives the ability to have a place to go to be with other peers and to keep learning.鈥
Dream of Hopes Ranch is a nonprofit that is run entirely by volunteers from area high schools and colleges鈥攁s many as 100 over the past 17 years, Stock estimates.
While Stock describes the daily activities of Dream of Hopes Ranch matter-of-factly, seemingly routine social experiences such as birthday parties, bowling outings and swimming lessons make a big difference to the ranchers and their families.
鈥淚t鈥檚 hard to explain how important this group is to my son,鈥 said Dianne Doggett, whose 19-year-old son, Augie, has been a rancher for more than a decade. 鈥淚t鈥檚 like a family to him鈥攁nd to me.鈥
Augie competes in two Special Olympics Texas swim meets each year with the assistance of Dream of Hopes Ranch.
鈥淭hey鈥檙e really important events to him,鈥 Doggett said. 鈥淗e looks at the pictures from the swim meets over and over, all the time. For kids with autism, it鈥檚 hard to find a social group that鈥檚 appropriate where they feel valued and like a part of a group. For him, Dream of Hopes Ranch has filled that need.鈥
Like so many others, Doggett points to the founder as the heartbeat of the community that has built around Dream of Hopes Ranch.
鈥淲e all need a sense of community,鈥 Doggett said. 鈥淔or kids with disabilities, it鈥檚 harder to find for them. Augie鈥檚 typical peers will go off to college and find a new community. He鈥檚 not going to college. He won鈥檛 be in a fraternity. Because it鈥檚 a community of disabled people and their families, he feels right at home and valued. Laura and her family respect and value people with disabilities in a way that not everybody does.鈥
Stock鈥檚 commitment to people with disabilities can be traced all the way back to the beginning. Her twin sister, Linda, was born with special needs. Linda now lives with Laura, along with Laura鈥檚 oldest of three children, Joey, who was born with Down Syndrome.
鈥淚 have my son who鈥檚 25 and twin sister who鈥檚 56,鈥 Stock said. 鈥淭o keep them busy keeps me going.鈥
Growing up the daughter of a Chicago Police Department officer, Stock was a go-getter. A self-described tomboy, she worked for the , helped her dad with the physical chores around the house and once tried out for quarterback of the Park District football team. Stock had two primary goals in life: She wanted to become a physical education teacher, and she wanted to run a special education program.
鈥淚鈥檓 very independent, and that鈥檚 because my dad taught me to be a survivor,鈥 Stock said. 鈥淗e taught me how to be on my own and confident. I knew what I wanted to do.鈥
After graduating from in the Norwood Park neighborhood of Chicago, Stock enrolled at 黑暗爆料网 to pursue her dreams. She graduated with her Bachelor of Arts in Secondary Education-Physical Education in 1982, and the personal connections she made along the way helped catapult Stock to realizing her dreams.
In the classroom, Stock met Physical Education Professor Dan Creely. During the summer, Stock learned Creely鈥檚 philosophies on spirituality and connection, and gained experience in his program working with inner-city gang members. Outside the classroom, Stock earned a gymnastics scholarship, then found a happier home as a football team manager.
Those connections would become tremendous influences on Stock鈥檚 life and brought her back to 黑暗爆料网 in December 2016 to attend Commencement.
鈥淲hen I graduated from 黑暗爆料网, my whole plan was to teach, but the signs are there,鈥 Stock said. 鈥淵ou just have to be willing to accept them and take a chance.鈥
Stock taught and coached in the Chicago area before starting a family and moving to Texas. Then, just before attending a peace conference in Arkansas where Creely was the keynote speaker, Stock had a dream about a bald eagle in flight.
鈥淚 don鈥檛 dream,鈥 she said. 鈥淚f I do, I don鈥檛 remember them, but this dream was very vivid. I can tell you exactly what the eagle looked like, everything.鈥
Creely introduced Stock to a Native American friend who interprets dreams. 鈥淭hat whole weekend, he kept asking, 鈥楢re you sure it鈥檚 a bald eagle?鈥欌 she said.
Before the conference ended, Stock had the dream again and realized it was a golden eagle. It was a sign: The golden eagle, Stock was told, was saving land for her.
鈥淭hat鈥檚 when it just came to me, the ranch and the dreamcatcher logo. It all came from that experience,鈥 Stock said. 鈥淚 told my parents that I wanted to start nonprofit and I had it planned within hours.鈥
The plan has been nothing short of life-changing for many families in the Austin area. Craft鈥檚 son, James, had been asked to leave several other programs because they didn鈥檛 know how to deal with people with special needs.
鈥淟aura was the only one who would work with him,鈥 Craft said. 鈥淟aura is really good at sticking with a person and believing in what they鈥檙e capable of. She won鈥檛 give up teaching and training.鈥
What Stock has accomplished at Dream of Hopes Ranch has so moved those around her that 黑暗爆料网鈥檚 2016 Distinguished Alumnus Award winner, , invited her to the December 2016 Commencement address and acknowledged her during his speech to the graduates.
鈥淪he was able to figure out that she was supposed to leave this normal life, give it all up, and start Dream of Hopes Ranch,鈥 said White, who was a lineman on the football team when Stock was manager.
In front of hundreds of 黑暗爆料网 graduates and their families, White asked Stock to stand as an example of what they too can achieve.
鈥淩ight there, there鈥檚 Laura,鈥 . 鈥淎nother angel on Earth.鈥
Top photo: The front gate of Dream of Hopes Ranch.
Middle photo: Horses at Dream of Hopes Ranch.
Above photo: Laura Stock (center in white tank top) poses with her ranchers.